All-inclusive resorts in Mexico and the Caribbean are a dream for honeymoons, destination weddings, and just about any excuse to soak up the sun with a cocktail in hand. But let’s be real—not all all-inclusives are created equal. They come in different styles, vibes, and quality levels, so picking the right one means understanding what actually matters to you. Before you book, here’s what you need to consider.

Quality Varies and Why Star Ratings Don’t Tell the Whole Story

Let me scream this from the rooftops – a 5 Star rating does not mean luxury. These ratings in no way reflect quality—they simply indicate available amenities. And here’s the kicker: there’s no universal standard for how resorts are rated. What’s considered a five-star in one system might barely make four stars somewhere else. That’s why we don’t rely solely on star ratings—we look at expert guides like the Michelin Guide and the AAA Diamond ratings, and most importantly, a trusted travel advisor’s firsthand experience. If you want the best fit for your trip, it’s all about knowing what matters to you, not just chasing a number.

Resort Style: Family-Friendly, Adults-Only, or Couples-Only?

This is where things get personal.

• Family-friendly resorts welcome all ages, though some have adults-only sections for when you need a break from the kid chaos.
• Adults-only resorts are for 18+ crowds and typically balance between relaxation and social energy.
• Couples-only resorts lean into romance, with an emphasis on candlelit dinners, private beach spots, and honeymoon-worthy experiences.

If you’re planning a honeymoon or destination wedding, knowing the difference between adults-only and couples-only can save you from ending up at a party-heavy resort when you were looking for secluded romance.

Nightlife: Low-Key or Party Central?

Are you the type to sip a nightcap on your balcony, or are you looking for live music, theme parties, and a nightclub that goes until 2 AM? Resorts vary widely when it comes to nightlife, so if evening entertainment is a must, make sure your resort offers the scene you want.

The Extras: Spas, Golf, and Beyond

Some couples choose their resort based on specific extras—like a world-class spa or an onsite golf course designed by a celebrity architect. Most spas at all-inclusive resorts come at an extra cost, so if a few massages and facials are on your agenda, research the options beforehand. For golfers, some high-end resorts include green fees, making it a huge perk if you’re planning to hit the links.

Activities: Relax or Get Adventurous?

Some resorts are all about relaxation, while others have daily schedules packed with activities. Think poolside games, yoga classes, mixology lessons, dance workshops, and watersports like kayaking, paddleboarding, and snorkeling. If you prefer an itinerary full of fun, look for a resort that offers more than just a swim-up bar.

Dining: The Foodie Factor

If you’re all about the food, don’t just count the number of restaurants—look at the quality and variety.

• Are there multiple a la carte options, or is it mostly buffet-style dining?
• Do you need to make reservations for restaurants?
• What’s the dress code?
• Is room service included?
• Are there options for dietary restrictions?

These details make all the difference in how much you’ll enjoy your stay. Because let’s be honest—no one wants to be stuck eating the same bland buffet night after night.

Final Thoughts: Let an Expert Help You Choose

There’s a perfect all-inclusive out there for you—it just takes knowing what’s most important. Whether you’re dreaming of a romantic retreat, a non-stop party, or a mix of both, I can help you find the best fit. Let’s chat about what matters most to you and get you set up at a resort that checks all the boxes.